PHOTO NEWS: 10 Good Reasons to Date a Single Mom.
………………. Don’t listen to the assumptions and over opinionated bunch that associates single moms with the ‘D’ word – drama. It’s not true, single moms are great women who deserve a chance. Here are the ten reasons you should date a single mom.
1. She’s Got it Together.
Single moms have to have it together all the time. Rest assure that you’re dating an independent woman that is self-sufficient and will not need a man to support her.
2. You Already Know That She’s a Great Mom.
You don’t have to think twice, you know that her love is endless and her heart is as big as the moon. She’s capable of providing the unconditional love and devotion that any child would be lucky to have.
3. She Takes Relationships Seriously.
You don’t have to worry about relationship games. She knows what she wants out of a relationship and she’ll only keep you around if you’re good for her and the kids. There is no party phase to overcome because she’s mature and knows what she wants.
A single mom is very ambitious. She has her priorities set and has goals. She can articulate what she wants out of life and out of a relationship.
Single moms appreciate the small gestures and acts of kindness. You will be treated with respect and she will not take you for granted.
Single moms have an intense amount of energy. They are able to multi-task and do just about anything. They are able to accomplish the long to-do list with ease.
7. Less Likely to Rush Into Things.
Single moms are juggling a lot – career, the average day-to-day, house and anything and everything else that you can possibly think of. When you first start dating, you may only see her once a week because she has to fit it into her schedule and make arrangements for her children. You don’t have to worry about being rushed into a serious relationship. Single moms have defined boundaries.
8. They Know What Makes a Relationship Work.
Being a single mom involves having prior relationship experiences – which means a single mom can identify what does and doesn’t work. They are able to carry their expanded ability to love someone well into their other relationships. Their friendships, relationships with family and bonds with their children benefit from their ability to know what works.
9. They Understand Selflessness.
Not every person is selfish but being a single parent gives you a different perspective on life and allows you to view the world with a different lens. The important stuff seems small – in other words importance gains a different meaning.
10. They’re More Aware of Your Needs.
Having kids teaches you how to better treat others. Single moms are able to know what you want because they are constantly in tune to the needs of others.